Who will you trust? (part 1)

My husband will tell you otherwise, but it’s not normal for me to have a big rant over something. Don’t get me wrong, I love what I do for a living. I genuinely get a real kick out of helping an individual or organisation develop. My only problem with what I do, is that it is pretty much unregulated – what that means is that any Tom, Dick or Harry can set themselves up as a Coach or Training Consultancy.

So let’s start with coaching. [In my next post on the blog, I will look at training] It is only since the 1970s that coaching has emerged as an independent discipline, moving into business away from the sports field. In fact Timothy Gallway, the founder of modern day coaching, did not publish his famous book on coaching ‘the Inner Game’ until 1997. Do a search on Google today and there are over 44 million hits for ‘coaching training providers’. In fact one ad on the Google search has a ‘free report’ which will show me how to make £5000 every month as a life coach. [As a professional coach, I am somewhat sceptical about this claim!] In addition to the many coaching qualifications I now hold, I hold a certificate in life coaching – and didn’t actually have to do any coaching to gain my qualification. Is it any wonder that there are a lot of poor coaches out there who will promise far more than they can deliver, take a lot of your money, and potentially do more harm than good?

So how do you go about finding the right coach for you?

 1. It’s not the letters that count

It seems that every coaching training provider will award you a set of acronyms once you have paid them enough money and jumped over enough hoops for them. If you are UK based look for whether your coach holds an accredited coaching qualification from any of the big three coaching associations – International Coaching Federation (ICF), Association of Coaching (AC) or European Mentoring Coaching Council. Membership of one of these associations is not enough – you can become an affiliate member of these associations by virtue of paying your annual membership fee.

2. Price is not a guarantee of success or experience

Unlike some of the regulated professions such as financial services, accountancy or the law, anyone can call themselves a coach, and charge what people are willing to pay. Before you sign up with a coach do ask for (and check) references from previous clients. If the coach does not have any attributed case studies, testimonials,  or feedback on their website be wary… If anyone guarantees you success, walk away…

3. Check the chemistry

Rapport is very important between a coach and their client. Sometimes, despite the best intentions of both parties, a relationship just doesn’t gel. Good coaches will always spend time getting to know you, and what you want out of the coaching relationship – BEFORE, starting to charge you for their time. I pride myself on being able to build up rapport with nearly everyone I meet, however, I know that there are some types of coaches that wouldn’t work for me – but work for other people.

4. Ask around

The very good (and established!) coaches very rarely have to advertise their services. A decent coach with an established business will gain over 90% of their warm leads from referrals – normally happy satisfied previous clients.  Having said that, a coach advertising their services, doesn’t necessarily mean there is something wrong with them – but do ask some questions where they find most of their clients.

5. Do they walk the walk & talk the talk?

What I mean is, who is coaching them at this present time? A lot of people have become coaches because they believe they can make a few bob, whilst not really living and breathing the ethics of coaching.  A decent coach will be regularly coached by someone else. If your coach can’t answer the question – what’s your view of supervision for coaches… walk away…

Just because your coach has been a top exec, pyschotherapist or acknowledged leadership expert – doesn’t necessarily make them a good coach.

6. Do they have professional indemnity (PI) insurance?

Any good coach should have PI insurance. Would you use a doctor, accountant or lawyer who didn’t have PI insurance? So why work with a coach who doesn’t have PI insurance – you are placing similar levels of trust in them as your accountant or lawyer. In effect, if your coach does not have PI insurance they are taking a business shortcut. Where else may they have taken shortcuts – and potentially how could that negatively impact yourself? For example, I have just been hearing of business coaches who, without being a qualified accountant or FSA regulated individual, advise on overdrafts and loans to their clients. So be careful!

Heather Townsend, the founder of The Efficiency Coach, holds an Associate Certified Coach credential from the International Coaching Federation, and vaid PI insurance from Towergate. If you would like to explore what a coaching relationship could do for you, please give me a call + 44 (0) 1234 48 0123 or drop me a line, heather@theefficiencycoach.co.uk

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6 Comments

  1. Posted July 13, 2009 at 5:12 pm | Permalink

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts on coaching. I have wondered this at times, seems to be lots of people jumping on the gravy train hoping to make money out of coaching and calling themselves a coach.

    I think it takes a special kind of person to be a coach. To truly understand what makes a person tick and to work with them to achieve the results they are after. I personally don’t have that patience.

    Very useful info about the Associations, I did not know they existed and I am sure many other people don’t either.

  2. Posted July 13, 2009 at 7:35 pm | Permalink

    Hi Heather
    I really enjoyed reading this article. Every profession has it’s ‘chancers’ and unless you root them out before booking their services, you could put your business in real jeopardy.

    PI is like you say a good indicator of someones seriousness towards their coaching business, and that they are decent and ethical – I would feel such a fool if I trusted a coach for financial advice pertaining to my business.

    Rapport and trust is essential to bring about the changes that you want from coaching, without that you may as well pay me to be your coach ;-)

  3. Posted July 27, 2009 at 6:47 pm | Permalink

    As a coach, I LOVE this article. It is chock full of truth. I would love to use it in my newsletteer – with full credit to you of course. May I? Sad to say that there are many out there who do not have integrity and are just looking to make a buck. In my experience they do tend to fade away quickly as word gets out……If your coach can’t tell you their purpose for being a coach (much more than “I want to help others”)….run!

  4. Posted July 28, 2009 at 5:56 pm | Permalink

    I am absolutely delighted that you like the article and want to use it in your newsletter. As you are a member of the ICF, I am very happy for you to use it in your newsletter, with some minor conditions – that I am credited as author and in the credit there is a link to my website and blog. As a courtesy, please can you send me a copy of your newsletter with my article in. Thank you.

  5. Posted August 10, 2009 at 1:46 pm | Permalink

    Hi Heather – thanks for your thoughts. Quite a few of these hit a chord with me. Like you I am also starting up a small business and have been bombarded with “Earn $100,000 a year being a Life Coach” type ads. My own business adviser told me I would be lucky to make a worthwhile living just seeing one to one clients.

    Thing is – one-on-one coaching is what i love and thrive on. There’s not a session goes by that I don’t learn something from my clients. I also have a coach (or two!) of my own.

    Like you I wouldn’t dream of taking someone’s money without getting to know them and deciding if we were ‘right’ for each other. Sometimes it’s hard to ‘retire’ a client and turn their money down but I will (and have) if I think we are not suited to each other.

    Trouble is how can regulation sort the ‘wheat from the chaff’? I could have qualifications up the Wazoo but if I am the sort of person who is only in it for the money then that’s still going to be the case. Surely there has to be an element of Caveat Emptor???

    As for advertising – while I would rather have 10 clients who were referred to me by happy former clients than 100 who have been ’sucked in’ by advertising – being located on the Isle of Man does mean I have to raise my profile and head above the parapet via my website, Twitter etc.

    But I guess there will always be those who need to see qualifications and credentials just as there will be those who would rather go with ‘gut feel’

    Thanks for making me think Heather!

    Warm regards
    Angie

  6. Posted September 14, 2009 at 2:39 pm | Permalink

    Thanks for this: I wrote a few similar articles to point out the sad fact that way too many people decide to call themselves coaches just because they can. Keep up with the great work.

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